…and I’m dreading it.
For a start, I was bullied all through school from start to finish; I hated school and dreaded going every day so much so that I often cried and begged my mum to let me stay home saying I felt ill, or if I got to school I’d go to the medical room and they’d send me home.
Secondly, the thought of someone else being responsible for my daughters safety just doesn’t sit well with me. She has always either been with me or my mum, so the idea of people I don’t know personally looking after her just ties my stomach in knots.
I don’t want her to dread school like I did, I want her to enjoy it and enjoy learning.
She’ll probably be fine, but my head thinks up of so many questions…
What if she wets herself and is laughed at and left to feel seriously embarrassed?
What if she doesn’t line up outside, the teacher doesn’t notice, and she’s either left outside alone or escapes from the playground?
What if she hurts herself and all she wants is her mummy but I’m not there?
What if she seriously hurts herself?
What if she gets bullied? Or has no friends?
What if she’s alone and sad at playtime?
What if she chokes on her morning snack?
What if she doesn’t do as she’s told and gets in trouble making her feel sad and not like her teacher?
What if she’s the only kid that doesn’t get a sticker for something?
What if she gets really upset that I’m not there and feels like I’ve abandoned her?
What if something serious and dangerous at the school happens?
What if other kids laugh at her for something?
What if no one lets her play with them?
What if she gets into a strop about something?
What if she gets out the classroom without the teachers noticing?
What if she struggles with using the toilets?
What if she struggles with the school work?
What if she simply hates it?
So many questions rattling round my head, I’m trying so hard to hold it all together so that she doesn’t pick up on how I’m feeling but it’s difficult. I just know that tomorrow I’m gonna cry so much when I leave the school without her.
Though she will only be doing 9-12:15 every day, I still hate that she’s not with me for that time.
I’ve always believed that the U.K. sends kids to school far too early…even more so now because my little girl is the youngest in her class.
😦 time goes too fast when you’re a parent.